Personal Blog OTW

Personal Blog of the Week:

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I'm not sure about you, but I know that I am a big time procrastinator. I put things off, like applying for jobs, working out, or paying bills. What do I think could possibly fix my procrastination problem? Motivation. The biggest problem I have is being motivated to work out. I think if I became healthier then job searching, being on top of my finances, and other things would just happen a lot easier. Not being healthy equals laziness, procrastination, and lack of motivation. Eck.

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I wish I was one of those people who was motivated by simple things, like boys (or girls). For example, when my mom is single and dating, she loses weight and eats healthy like it's nothing. And there's other motivation out there besides finding a loved one, like doing more outdoor activities, going to school, meeting new people, or to buy a new wardrob. Hell, being healthy and fit should be motivation enough, right? So why isn't it for me? 

It's so much easier to imagine it. Imagine going out with friends and not being the fat one. Or being noticed by a guy even while wearing sweats and no make-up. I can plan my whole work-out routines and healthier eating habits and tell myself that this is it. I am going to do it. For real this time! But it doesn't happen. Or I tell myself just one more day. I'll start tomorrow. I'll start next week. I'll start next month. Why not start today? 

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What the eff is wrong with me?! To have the life I want, I need to take action. I need to have goals and find my motivation and keep it in my head, keep it in front of me. Bleh. It's just so hard. Everything is. I want so bad to be one of those people who work hard and don't just imagine it but actually goes out and does it.

So tell me, what motivates you? How do you succeed in your goals? (Help a sista out!)

Personal Blog OTW

This is my first ever Personal Blog OTW, and I really want you, the reader, to understand me as a person. The way I feel about things in my own life and my thoughts on everything else as well. I may talk a lot about celebrities and what not, but that's not all that goes on in my mind. I'm not that superficial or vain, even if some may argue otherwise. ;)

Personal Blog of the Week:

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She's such a Bitch,

Isn't she? "She" -- as in every female with strong opinions. A woman who speaks her mind, a woman who doesn't like to be treated like complete shiz. She is just such a bitch! That word gets thrown around so much and apparently almost every female happens to be one. Maybe people call women that because they can't think of any other ways of describing that person (idea: expand your vocabulary). And I'll admit, we really can be bitchy at times, but most of us that are called a "bitch" have a reason to be one.

Most people don't just act like that for fun. Those who do act that way purposefully? Those are the real bitches. The ones that are malicious and hurtful just because they can be. What's sad, is that woman that are actually like that get away with it. And that's totally fair that they get away with it, right? While other (nice) girls who have momentary attitudes, are a total beotch.

I for one can get really pissed off sometimes. And yea, I may yell and have an attitude of an Ice Queen on occasion, but that is not my personality. That's not who I am as a person, that's just how I act sometimes when things aren't right. Shouldn't we all be allowed to have those moments, without being hurtfully called a bitch?

And so what if I have really strong opinions, who doesn't? Some people chose to state their opinions, some don't, and some force them on you. (Hmmm... seems like the forceful person would be the bitch?)

Some words are used to describe people too often that aren't exactly the right words to use. And no matter what women say, being called a bitch is not okay. If someone is truly a malicious, always unpleasant, and selfish person, then,(according to the dictionary), you can call them a bitch. Because that's what they are. Don't be quick to throw that word out on someone who's having a bad day, or is frustrated momentarily, or if it's someone you love. It's disrespectful and just plain rude.

xoxo
e.m.